One minute things are as they always are. Happy, easy going and with no real thoughts about anything. Then in an instant, it changes.
Now you both aren’t talking. Well you talk but the words aren’t the same. They are short and given without intent to provide honest conversation. Even touching each other is awkward when it used to be natural. Almost as if you both forgot how its done.
Saying I love you now, is like giving in, when at a time like this, it is when it’s needed most. It’s been written that love meant never having to say you were sorry. Well men, that is not true.
Saying your sorry, especially when you feel that your side of the rift is the correct one, is the only way out of this mess. The problem is that it is always you that has to be the one to do it, in order for things to be normal again.
As hard as it is to always have to be the one to say “I’m sorry”, its even harder to live with the fact that you always give up whatÂ you believe in just to keep the peace.
Maybe its just part of being a man. Maybe because our feelings can be hurt or we can be upset and then just move on. Start over when things are said and done like nothing happened. After all most men argue and then have a beer and its all forgotten. I guess it just isn’t that easy for women.
So now it’s just a matter of how long you decide to let this linger before you break the ice and clear the air, because you know she’s not going to do it. It’s really unfortunate that it has to come to this especially when you both know that the what caused this wasn’t even serious.
So with mop in hand, it’s time to clean up the mess you helped create.
Funny thing is that once its all cleaned up, it’s like it never happened. Back to hugs, back to kisses, back to meaningful conversation…..
Just one man’s opinion
The Regular Guy
Someone has to give in, if you do it your the bigger person. when there are no words between you is it who is right and who is wrong? i don’t think at this point that is always what matters, what matters is that someone gives in to open up the lines of communication, or better yet just own your own part in it. today everyone plays the blame game. love your thoughts rob.
Thanks Teri…I appreciate the feedback too and look forward to your comments…R